Recommended Reading
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This is not a full bibliography— just a few of my favorites on the following topics.
Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior by Judith Martin
Nothing but the Girl by Susie Bright & Jill Posener
The Entertaining Encyclopedia: Essential Tips for Hosting the Perfect Party, by Denise Vivaldo
Party Like a Rock Star, by Jes Gordan
Guests Without Grief : Entertaining Made Easy for the Hesitant Host, by Paula Jhung
The Lesbian Erotic Cookbook by Ffiona Morgan
Lesbian Sex: 101 Lovemaking Positions, by Jude Schell
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide For All of Us, by Felice Newman
The Lesbian Sex Book, 2nd Edition: A Guide for Women Who Love Women by Wendy Caster and Rachel Kramer Bussel
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma, by Staci Haines
Without a Net: The Female Experience of Growing Up Working Class (Live Girls), edited by Michelle Tea
Exhibitionism For The Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot, by Carol Queen
Baby Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl Writing, edited by Michelle Tea
Freeing Ourselves: A Guide to Health and Self Love for Brown Bois, by The Brown Boi Project
Susie Sexpert’s Lesbian Sex World by Susie Bright
Femmes of Power: Exploding Queer Femininities, by Ulrika Dahl
Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity, by Chloe Brushwood Rose
Two-Spirit People: Native American Gender Identity, Sexuality, and Spirituality, edited by Sue-Ellen Jacobs, Wesley Thomas, & Sabine Lang
Skin: Talking About Sex, Class, & Literature, by Dorothy Allison
Trash: A Collection of Fiction, by Dorothy Allison
Live Nude Girls, by Carol Queen
Butch is a Noun, by S. Bear Bergman
Stone Butch Blues, by Leslie Feinberg
From the Inside Out: Radical Gender Transformation, FTM and Beyond, by Morty Diamond
Lesbian S/M Safety Manual, by Pat Califia
Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples, by Pat Califia
The Second Coming: A Leatherdyke Reader, by Pat Califia & Robyn Sweeney
The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Doing it for Daddy: Short and Sexy Fiction About a Very Forbidden Fantasy, by Pat Califia
Macho Sluts, by Pat Califia
Doc and Fluff: The Dystopian Tale of a Girl and Her Biker, by Pat Califia
Leatherwomen 1, 2 & 3 by Laura Antoniou
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities, by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, by Tristan Taormino
Lesbian Polyfidelity, by Celeste West
The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything from Heartthrob to Heartbreak, by Marny Hall
Virgin Territory, edited by Shar Rednour
Virgin Territory 2, edited by Shar Rednour
With a Rough Tongue: Femmes Write Porn, by Amber Dawn
The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica, by D. L. King
The Best American Erotica Series, edited by Susie Bright
Best Lesbian Erotica Series, edited by Tristan Taormino
Herotica: A Collection of Women's Erotic Fiction 5 part series with multiple editors
Glamour Girls: Femme/Femme Erotica edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel
In Her I Am, by Chrystos
FirePower, by Chrystos
Valencia, by Michelle Tea
The Passionate Mistakes and Intricate Corruption of One Girl in America, by Michelle Tea
PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality, by Carol Queen, Lawrence Schimel, & Kate Bornstein (Preface)
Persistance: All Ways Butch and Femme, edited by Ivan E. Coyote & Zena Sharman
The Creamsickle, by Rhiannon Argo
The Swashbuckler, by Lee Lynch
Dagger: On Butch Women, by Lily Burana, Roxxie, & Linnea Due
Diesel Fuel: Passionate Poetry, by Pat Califia
Lucy and Mickey, by Red Jordan Arabateau
Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, by Tristan Taormino
Boys Like Her: Transfictions, by Taste This & Kate Bornstein (Foreward)
Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary, by Morty Diamond
Tales of the Dark Lord, by John Preston
Tales of the Dark Lord 2, by John Preston
Flesh and the Word, by John Preston
Flesh and the Word 2: An Anthology of Erotic Writing (Bk. 2), by Various & John Preston
Flesh and the Word 3: An Anthology of Erotic Writing (Bk. 3), by Various, John Preston, & Michael Lowenthal
Leather Daddy and the Femme, by Carol Queen
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